Monday, February 28, 2011

Another Plea to help bring Olga home....

Today, a chain of blogs around the United States is being formed to help bring Olga home....my blog is just one link....although Olga has a family ready to adopt her, the costs are mounting, and in the economic times we are facing, Olga's new family is feeling it too.  I know we all have some financial issues, but a 5$ or 10$ donation to Olga from each of us would make a huge difference in this family's ability to bring her home more quickly, and probably won't make any of us miss a meal in the process.  Think about it while you read Patti's words....
Dear friends,
So many of you already know this beautiful little face....
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Olga turned five last month. She has spent the last five years in an orphanage in Eastern Europe, without the love of a mommy and daddy- simply because she arrived in life exactly as God designed her. One chromosome too many, and her fate was sealed from birth.

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Sealed, because in Eastern Europe, babies who are born with Down syndrome are deemed unacceptable at birth. They are discarded as cast-offs of society, and when they turn five they leave the only home they've ever known...
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And I wish I could say that for most of these children, leaving that home meant going to a place of safety, a place of happiness, a place where they would finally know the love of a family...know what it meant to be cuddled or sung to or read to, tucked in at night, prayed for, loved.
Instead, they are taken to a place that most people wouldn't leave their family pet.
A place of living hell, where they will never know the tenderness of a parent, never know the security of being raised in a family, and there they will stay, one ugly, pain-filled day at a time...until they die.
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I read a post last December that stayed with me to this day. It was called from baby dolls to bedstraps.The blog author wrote about Elizabeth, an orphan on Reece's Rainbow who had been transferred to a mental institution, waiting for a family to step forward for her. Her words still haunt me.
I wonder where she thought she was going as they led her out of the orphanage that day. Did she think that maybe it was finally her turn? That they were taking her to her forever Mommy and Daddy?
And when they instead took her inside that dreadful place, when they shaved her head and tied her to a too-small metal crib
when they turned their backs and
walked
away…
when they left her confused, terrified,
in a room where the wails of schizophrenic adults echo through the cold air
what was going through her young mind?
Did she wonder if she was being punished?
How long did she hold out hope that this was only temporary?
That any minute, they would come and take her back to the baby house
to her baby dolls and teddy bear,
to her best friend, Angelina?
Did she long to free her arms from the restraints
to cover her head with her hands to drown out
the scary noises
the scary sights
the scary smells?

That could be my Lily….
It could be your child.
And what if it were?
What if you woke up one morning
and by some hellish, twilight-zone twist of fate
your child wasn’t still tucked into that warm bed down the hall,
what if your child was trapped
across the dark sea
in that nightmare that is
the institution?
What
would
you
DO?
Rescue those being led away to death; hold back those staggering toward slaughter. Proverbs 24:11

Elizabeth is being rescued today, thanks to the efforts of that blogging mama, and others like her.
Olga is being rescued today, thanks to so many of you...you gave so much and created such a large grant that a family was able to step forward and start the process of adoption.
The Abells have done so much already, towards rescuing Olga. I can't even imagine all the paperwork and prayer and emotion and finances that goes into an international adoption. They have done numerous fundraisers, and will continue to do so until they can bring Olga home.
Through the help of so many, a grant of over $13,000 has been raised for Olga's adoption. That grant is set aside for the final travel costs and fees that it will take to bring Olga home. It will take every penny of that and then some.
Right now the Abells are in need of raising the $7,000 that is needed to submit their dossier for Olga. Without that dossier we don't even know if Olga has been transferred yet. Here in America you just pick up the phone and ask these questions. But here in America we don't tie five year old girls to cribs to keep them from climbing out.
The Abells need to submit that dossier as soon as possible- at the very least to find out if she has been transferred already- because I know an army of prayer warriors who is going to want to know that piece of information as well. And at the very most, it could be able to hold Olga at the baby house until the Abells can rescue her. I wish I could say with certainty that she won't be transferred- truthfully we just don't know that.
Olga has been so heavy on my heart for months- friends, I want you to know that I DO trust that God has a plan here.
I prayed like crazy for a way to help the Abells. I truly believe that there is a network of people who love Olga here in blogland...a net that is woven by God and is stretching out across this blessed country we live in, and even beyond to generous hearts in other nations. I really cannot express enough how thankful I am to be a small part of what God has already done for Olga, Peter and Kareen. But I don't think our job is done.
Olga needs us.
I don't want her to spend one more forsaken day in that place than she has to.
We're not doing a giveaway here today. I don't even think we need to do one- I know so many just have a heart to help and to give, and prizes were never the real reason we all gave anyway.
So I'm just asking- for one day- for you to do whatever you could to help Olga. Whether that's $10 or $20 or even a hundred...if you are able to help raise this money for the dossier, please do so HERE...
This is the link for the Family Sponsorship Page on Reece's Rainbow
...every single dollar goes to the Abell's adoption fund, and every single dollar will help.
We're calling this A Day to Save Olga, because there are about 17 of us blogging mamas who have set aside this day to blog, post on Facebook, pray, give and spread the word to SAVE OLGA.
Will you help us?
I know you will:)
Love,
Patti

Friday, February 25, 2011

7 Days until Elli's First Birthday!!!

I cannot believe Elli is going to be a whole year in 7 days!!  She is getting so big, and is starting to really show her personality.  I think her favorite thing to do lately is to play with her brothers.  The other day they were playing with their colored dominoes - setting them up in neat rows and then watching them all come tumbling down - Elli watched for a while, but it wasn't long before the boys gave in and allowed her a chance to play...

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

New Background...

The weather, here in Egg Harbor Township, NJ, has gone from...

Days where we played in the park with no jackets...
Joshua climbed on everything...
Reagan played on lots of play yard equipment...
but his absolute favorite was...THE SWINGS!!
Jason was extremely satisfied playing in the treehouse with all the friends he made while we were at the park (mostly girls...hmmmm;))...
Elli watched and took it all in... 
Until a baby swing opened up... 
When Jason saw his sister in a swing, he quickly abandoned all the other girls and ran to make sure his sister experienced what it was like to be pushed high on a swing... 
When Elli had enough of the swings, she decided to explore the rest of the playground (there are no pictures other than this because mom was quite busy trying to keep Elli from being ran over, and from eating the wood chips;))... 
...we even rode bikes outside with no jackets... 
...to blustery days where we had chilly picnics outside... 
...To snow again... 
Hence the new background...the sky is always blue from the window of an airplane...okay, except when the weather changes...so...the new background is for Brandon - who LOVES airplanes;).

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Random Videos...

This is a video of Elli and Daddy playing....
This is a video of a funny little Cardinal who began attacking the rear-view mirrors on Chris' truck when we moved into this house, and he is still at it...

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Derby Time!!!

The Cubscout Pinewood Derby is an event that our family always looks forward to.  Each Cubscout is given a kit containing a block of wood, wheels and axels, and each scout is responsible for shaping his block into a car.  They have to follow certain rules about weight, and wheel placement.  Then all the cars are raced to see who has the fastest!!  This year Joshua made a $100.00 car, with his face on it...
 
To make his car, Joshua simply cut his block of wood in half.  So,with the remaining half, the twins, Elli, and I made a car to race.  We made a Valentine's car... 
Before the race everyone was sooooo excited!!  (they couldn't sit still that is why the picture is fuzzy ;))
At the race they each got their picture taken with their car, and then they had to go check it in to make sure each car made was made according to the rules... 
 
 
There were lots of really neat cars there...
One of the other moms made this car (it came in last just like the team -hahaha - sorry Steelers fans)...
Brandon and Chris were the "pit crew" for the night, carefully placing each car in the correct lane before each race (they did a great job :))...
These are all the scouts that raced...
Every race was watched very carefully by the boys... 
In the end, Joshua won 1st place in his group, Jason and Reagan won 1st place in the siblings group, and Joshua won 3rd place overall!!!  Elli had a great time clapping for all the winners, especially her brothers!!! 
At the end of the evening, Joshua was presented with the Arrow of Light award.  It is the highest award a cubscout can earn, and it marks the ending of their Cubscout years, and the beginning of their Boyscout years!  We were soooooo proud of him!!!! 
I want to include here some pictures of Brandon and Trevor's Derby cars.  They participated in a different race a week ago - they didn't win, but their cars were awesome!!!   
This was probably our last Derby race - unless the twins join cubscouts - hmmmm.....