Thursday, January 13, 2011

Davids has a family!!

Before I moved to Ohio, I really didn't do a whole lot on the computer except play games, type letters, do an occasional email, and order a few things on-line here and there.  Once we got to Ohio, the internet became my link to all my friends and family.  Over the past few years, I have come to realize how useful the internet can be to me in keeping in touch with everyone - through my blog, emails and now skyping. 
Yesterday, I got a taste of how powerful a tool the internet can be in helping a boy like Davids.  The story I posted yesterday about Davids was posted here on Monday, January 8, 2011.  This blog post spored more blog posts and twits on twitter (whatever that is - haven't gotten that advanced yet) and facebooks on facebook (again...totally unfamiliar) and emails... AND just 5 days later, with only 9 days left until Davids' 16th birthday, a family, with paperwork all done and just looking for a child to bring home, has stepped forward and Davids has a home!!  I would encourage you to go to this blog and read the whole story for yourself (to be honest it all sounds a little too good to be true unless you go see for yourself how this all played out).  While you are visiting the blog - take a look at the comments left on the posts.  It is amazing how quickly Davids' story was spread and how many responses and how much help it elicited in just 5 days- it is mind blowing!!! 
I sent the story to some friends who are pastoring a church in Bulgaria and asked them to pass the story on, hoping to maybe generate some help over in that part of the world.  I had a response from my friend Taya in less than 15 minutes.  I was so happy to get her response so quickly and learn that she felt it was "no accident that I had thought to send them the story as the orphanages over in Bulgaria had burdened her and her husband's hearts many, many times".  She and her husband generated an email and sent it out to 53 neighboring people in less than a 1/2 hour.  How amazing is that!! 
When Joshua and I read the story about Davids yesterday, we prayed for him, and then Joshua and I had a small conversation about whether or not God could find Davids a family before he turned 16 on January 23rd.  I have to say, there was a part of me that was skeptical, but there was also that small "mustard seed" of Faith that He would pull it off - AND HE DID!!  He drew people to this story - one at a time - through the amazing technology we have.  Thank you - all of you - who prayed and passed this story on one way or another!!  I don't know about you, but on January 23rd, I will be thinking of this face and smiling...  

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

A very special post!!

Yesterday on Reece's Rainbow Olga and Kareen were moved from "Children waiting to be adopted" to "Children who have found their forever families"!!!  Look for yourselves!!  AMAZING!!!!  I am crying as I type I am so in awe of how amazing God is.  Clearly God had Reece's Rainbow and these children on His heart - He brought these children to our attention, moved our hearts to pray for them and get the word out, and now He is going to watch as they are welcomed into loving families!!!  I feel like jumping up and down and screaming I am so so happy!!!!  I think I might (and I will have my kids join in so that I don't look crazy) ;)!!  Thank you, all of you, who have prayed for these children!!  James 5:16 - "The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much."

Now I have a sad story to share, and more prayers to request.  Meet Davids, and hear his story...
 
In January, 2010, I met an awesome child/young man at an orphanage in Riga, Latvia . His name is Davids. He was one of a few children we were introduced to that day for consideration in our Summer 2010 orphan hosting program. He was really sharp and smart, had a great sense of humor and looked you in the eye when he tried to speak the good amount of English he had already learned. I remember asking his favorite things to do and he didn’t hesitate to explain he loved kite flying in the sky and dreamed to be a pilot some day! He also enjoys soccer, basketball, swimming and all sports. But, the thing that surprised us most was his age! He was already 15 and effectively the size of a 9 or 10 year old child. We asked the orphanage director more about him later, and were told Davids is healthy, just small and has the kindest, gentlest heart. He generally plays with the younger group of kids because the older ones make fun of him and claim to be “too cool” to hang out with a guy his size. As for history, he has been in 4-5 different orphanages, but has managed to keep hope for a brighter future. He is a sincere and especially child towards younger children. Lego building is one of his hobbies! I remember, he made a joke when I asked him if he liked dogs and cats…a traditional question we ask… He said, “of course! But, I am no cannibal.” And gave us the biggest smile of all! Later, when he was among the group and doing art projects, he drew a picture of a jet airplane landing under a sky that resembled the American flag. When I asked him to explain it, he told me, “My dream to fly airplane and live in family in America !” From that point, he had us at “hello” and we were committed to helping him fulfill his dream.
For the summer program, Davids was hosted by a multi-cultural, multi-racial family and he did awesome! He was kind to his younger host brothers and sister and enjoyed just about everything they did. He especially liked to build and make things and play sports outside, with swimming being one of his favorites! He learned a lot more English and wasn’t shy to use it either. While his host family was not his forever family, our team and staff was so thankful when we received a call from a couple who wanted to go and visit with him before his return to Latvia . We knew time was short, and we encouraged anyone who might be interested, to meet him asap. After one meeting, the family who went, let me know they would be adopting him and how encouraged and inspired they were by Davids. After many discussions, we realized that he needed to know the plan, as his birthday was coming up…his 16th birthday, which means several things to an orphan. First, it means they are about to age out and can’t be considered for adoption. Second, it means that they are on their path of graduating the orphanage and will soon be on their own. Third, it means life as they know it now: food, shelter, protection and security is about over. In the first year after a child leaves the orphanage, generally 15% commit suicide. So, it was decided for me to talk to Davids when our interview returned to Latvia this past August and see how he felt regarding this adoption.
When I sat down with him, I had a translator with me, but he didn’t need her. We sat on a sofa in the social worker’s office and I asked him how he liked America and what he thought? He explained he loved it, and it was more than he ever imagined! I asked him if he remembered this particular man who came to meet him and spent time with him the week before he returned to Latvia , and he said “Oh Yes and we had fun!” I went on and said, “Well, this man told his wife about you and they want me to tell you they are so happy, and they want to adopt you.” Davids’ look was utter shock! He said, “Who, me?” and I confirmed it was indeed him. He said, “Oh yes! VERY VERY much YES! And, they want ME?” He was just the most excited kid I think I ever had the pleasure to tell about an adoption. Most kids are shocked, but usually have to think about it and have several questions to ask before they really accept it and consider it as real. Davids’, on the other hand, was just the happiest kid on the planet that day; his dream was coming true.
Last week, I got an email from his adoptive family… now just 10 days before his 16th birthday,it basically said they felt that they would adopt a girl they met (which was planned all along), but they no longer wanted to adopt Davids’. They had changed their mind. The next day, I got an unsolicited email from Davids’ social worker in Latvia . This is what she wrote:

"Hello Le Ann,
I wish to ask you about one of our boys, his name is Davids T. He was hosted Summer 2010 at a host family in IL. Since he was close to 16, we got information and you shared with him that there is family who will adopt him. It was not the family who hosted him, but another one.
Till this day we never received more information about the adopting family, and we confirmed that the Ministry also has no information yet. I must share, we are all worried and concerned. Davids became so nervous in this last month, his attention to everything is gone. Yesterday he was moved to hospital, because of problems with his stomach relating to the stress of not knowing. We know this all is because he is so close to his 16th birthday; it's on 23 January this year.
We don’t know what to say and can't say anything to Davids because we don't know. It will be a shock for him if it's not true, he has so long lived with this thoughts focused on this adoption and a family in America.
We wish to know the truth to share so he can know and be happy again.”

We have tried to contact his family and explain, show them, what their decision has done to this child. So far, there is no response, but more importantly, there is no time with only a few days that remain for someone to file the I800 with USCIS to adopt Davids’. I have explained to his social worker what the full situation is, and as a strong Christian, she has agreed to pray earnestly with us for a new family to come forward for this child! The adoption agency who was working on this case has agreed to do everything they can to expedite the adoption and assist where possible to get them through the system.

My heart is aching for this boy.  When I first read this story I thought of my Brandon.  Davids isn't much different from him in his interests - just born in a different country and put in an orphanage.  I don't think that this story is one I just "happened" upon.  I think this boy is on God's heart, and He is moving me again to pray and get the word out for Davids.  Acts 10:34 states that God is not a respector of persons - He doesn't show partiality - what He does for one He will do for another!!  God just found Olga and Kareen families - He will do the same for Davids!!  I am asking you to lift up Davids in prayer. 
1Thesselonians 5:17, Acts 12:5, Romans 1:9, and 2Timothy 1:3 all mention "pray without ceasing" - why? Because God enjoys the sweet aroma...
Revelations 8:3,4 -"And another angel came and stood at the altar, having a golden censer; and there was given unto him much incense, that he should offer it with the prayers of all saints upon the golden altar which was before the throne.  4And the smoke of the incense, which came with the prayers of the saints, ascended up before God out of the angel's hand."
What an honor to think that God regards our prayers so highly!!  Let's fill heaven with "sweet aromas" for Davids!!

Monday, January 10, 2011

Just received this photo via email and had to post it!  Our cousin - we will call her the PA Laurie Kopp - took this photo of the "little cousins" during the Rice's visit to Uncle Tom and Aunt Judy's house.  So, from left to right we have...
Brandon Kopp holding Elli Kopp, and Trevor Kopp - at Trevor's feet is Drew Kopp holding Reagan Kopp, Jason Kopp, Caroline Kopp holding Kaysea, Joshua Kopp, in front of Joshua is Matt Kopp, and then Caleb and Noah Pardon (two brothers hugging eachother - sooooo sweet!!)

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Random pictures of our visit with the Rices...

Opening Christmas gifts with the Rice's...
Elli loved the ornament the Rice's gave her... 
Visiting the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island...
Visiting Uncle Tom and Aunt Judy and all the Kopp cousins... 
 Playing around the house... 
Going to the Boardwalk for the First Swim of 2011...we were spectators;) 
Meet some of the participants... 
A trip to DC with Uncle... 
Arlington National Cemetery... 
Independence Hall and the Liberty Bell... 
It was a very busy visit and we enjoyed every minute of it!!  They left this morning and we miss them already!!
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After the Rice's left, we got SNOW!!!!

Friday, January 7, 2011

Good Article...

Today I am going to simply post an article.  I know this will disappoint most of you, however, this article is a must read.  I know it isn't just here on the East Coast, where the mere mention of the Islamic religion as a dangerous and violent religion is taboo.  Every morning the boys and I watch one girl get on the school bus...she wears a burqa...and I cannot help but wonder...1)Why would an Islamic family move to the United States - a country built primarily for freedom from tyranny and oppression - and still choose to identify with the religion of Islam, which more often than not, is based on tyranny and oppression?  2)If they do claim to be "peaceful Muslims", why would they wear clothing that identifies them with radical Islam? 
There are more than a couple of options for a woman of Islam to wear her scarf.  I am not condemning dressing Conservatively or Modestly, and I am certainly not condoning lack of modesty and the way some women choose to expose themselves.  I just wonder what would cause an Islamic woman to wear a burqa rather than a hijab?  Why would she choose to hide herself in such a radical way? 
Maybe some of you think I am "racist" or "paranoid".  Sometimes I think I am.  Sometimes I think that my husband's job, and the little amount (thankfully little, I would probably live in a closet if I knew all he knows) of information that he shares with me makes me that way.  But, then I read articles like this one, and I know that it isn't just me thinking about this.  Do any of you think about this...just wonderin'...

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Mr. Roboto...

Reagan made the coolest Robot out of legos, I just had to blog about it!!!  Good Job Reagan;)!

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Playing with Kaysea and Michael...

Everyone except me and the babies slept in this morning, so we had our own little "Happy New Year" breakfast - party hats and all...
We tried to stay quiet, but making noise was too fun... 
Elli and Kaysea played on the riding toys... 
Michael is very quickly learning to keep up with Elli... 
Ok...everyone is getting ready to leave, more later...